Many times, our actions when communicating with our spouse can cause a series of problems. Often times, we don’t realize we are doing them. It can be from habits we picked up growing up or our subconscious defensive mode that we go into. Here are 3 things to be careful doing when having conversations with your spouse:
Silence– Be careful to not just sit in silence when having conversations with your spouse. Whether you’re on the phone or looking at each other directly, this can make them feel as though you are not listening or not concerned with what they are saying. It’s ok to be quiet and listen, but when you’re in complete silence that can really irritate them.
Sarcasm – It’s ok to be funny, but you have to know when it’s appropriate. By having that attitude, you could actually be adding gas to the fire and possibly dig yourself into a hole that will be hard to get out of.
Sensitive– There are times where you should be sensitive to listening to your spouse. On the other hand, when you become sensitive for the sake of your pride, it can cause brick walls to emerge on both sides.
Have a Mirror Moment with yourself as well as your spouse about these “S” words. Talk about them and learn to work through them together. Don’t let these “S” words spoil it with your spouse. Spread The Soup!
