All marriages have disagreements. Over half of them could have been avoided with two simple things. Those two things are communication and rules. We must learn that we can’t get mad at our spouse over a standard that hasn’t been established yet. Some of our spouses came from different cultures and rules. Some may not have had both parents in their household that shape certain rules or had parents that were more laid back on things that you are more concerned about. If there are no rules, then you can’t be rude to them about those issues. You can’t assume that they should know or do things because you do and know them. Through healthy communication, both of you should set rules for your marriage and how the house will be run. By having that dialogue, they will learn to do the rules, because they respect you and their vows. So, don’t take the rules or making the rules lightly. When you get hurt, don’t fake your feelings, but communicate and get real with the rules. Spread The Soup!
