Arguments and disagreements will happen within all marriages. One of the keys to having less or rarely any, is by understanding how you are coming across with your communication. Here are three “T’s“ to think about when you are having a disagreement:
Talk– Are you Talking and listening or are you just waiting to Talk?
Tone– How is your Tone when you respond to your spouse? Can they hear anger, sarcasm or irritation in your voice?
Truth– Are you telling your spouse the Truth for resolution or your Opinion to win the argument?
Have a Mirror Moment and ask yourself if you do these things when problems come up. Your T’s will tell how your spouse will treat you. Spread The Soup!